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As a wise rabbi once said to me, half the people in leadership roles suffer from impostor syndrome, and the other half ought to...

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A year before I stepped down I was explaining my rationale to a friend - who still likes to remind me of what I said. A prime reason to leave was that I didn't want to die. Physically and in real life, that was a fear - to be the leader who heroically keeps on giving, and then drops dead shortly after retiring (which anecdotally seems distressingly common among headteachers!).

So I think the connection to mortality is fascinating, and the 'need to be needed' a really powerful and potentially dangerous stimulant. I don't think I've kicked the addiction since leaving, but at least I am seeing that there are lots of platforms and contexts in which one is or can feel needed, and fixing it all in a role - however satisfying - is risky.

I also reflect on the need to listen to our bodies, which may be nudging us to do things that are good for our wider wellbeing as well as for our physical health...

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